I think, happiness come when there is contentment.
What will you feel when you can't get what you want? Disappointment? Dull? Frustrated? Give up? Angry? No, these shouldn't be! It really is your choice to decide the way you live your life. Contentment doesn't mean you should not strike in life, but be contented with whatever result you got, and have a positive mindset when facing everything in life. Not letting disappointment to ruin your beautiful days!
Happiness can be found as we have the right thought or view over ourselves and our lives. Be contented with who you are, what you have and where you've been. Most importantly, be contented with people around you. Learn to appreciate them. Nothing is too wrong when you accept and deal with the situation with contentment. Life can be easier, isn't it?
Contented people are happy people. Be contented and be grateful, better things are yet to come. =)
Philippians 4:12-13, NIV. "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength."